Hiya Love!

February is well and truly on the way and I’ve been looking forward to the season of Love! This is one of my favourite celebrations on the calendar; I love seeing hearts, roses and the colour pink and red all over the place! Now I have to be honest. This post should have gone out a good couple weeks ago but your girl got caught up watching and finishing Game of Thrones & House of Dragons. I have not watched TV in years because My daughter struggles to sleep, but she is on melatonin now and I’ve got my evenings back! Can I just say the Game of Thrones franchise is one of the best series I have ever watched. It evoked all of my emotions, I’m sad it’s finished and I know it is an oldie, but if anyone wants to waffle about it with me I am open to it! Discussions about the 7 Kingdoms will not be rejected. I swear this by the Old Gods and the New

Anyway back to what I was saying. Yes! Love!

I promise you I have been thinking about what I want to write this month. Love is endless, boundless so there are so many ways I could discuss it. There are millions of songs and expressions about love and we never get tired of it. Because love is what drives all of us for better and for worse. It is woven into humanity.

I want us to focus on self love for a minute. Not the surface level self-love, but a deeper connection. The kind that brings you back to yourself. A self-love that keeps you safe and stable. A self -love that sees you healed and happy, A self-love that honours you in all of your glory. A self-love that is disciplined. A love of self acceptance that brings you into alignment with yourself. This is the love that I want to discuss because this is the what will see the best changes in our lives.

Now don’t get it twisted. You know the saying “easier said than done.” And I am right there with you because none of us are perfect. But goodness me if we want to see the changes we long for we got to make a start as an act of self-love and commitment.

acts of Love

I started this blog as an act of self-love, self-trust and moving in my purpose; regardless of how it looks to others and now I must maintain it even if I can’t be arsed because I know if I give up nothing will change; I will get more of the same and I will only have myself to blame.

I’m committed to eating healthier because my body requires it and my health is important to me.

I journal most days because I’m committed to my healing process and changing for the better.

I’m committed to getting the support I need.

I’m committed to following my joy/passions.

I committed to my boundaries and reciprocal relationships regardless of how anyone feels because I’m done with people taking the piss.

I’m committed to staying in my lane and minding my own business.

I’m committed to my peace.

I am not afraid to release the very thing that threatens my health and wellbeing, keeps me from truly loving myself and prevents me from living in my purpose.

You see? We have a choice. It has nothing to do with anyone else and everything to do with what we do. You have a choice.

no excuses!

Empowerment over Excuses! We’ve all had things happen in our lives but excuses prevent progress. I have already mentioned on this blog that I have been to prison. I have started over a few times, I have 3 children with additional needs and there are times when I am TIREDDD!! But if I don’t find a way to make a change everything will stay the same and I can’t have that! I won’t have that. There is always something that appears to have some importance to get in the way of our goals but I have found when I make a start on something and I find my stride, the momentum builds and it doesn’t feel so hard. We can’t allow the hardships or challenges to hold us back. Get creative with your solution. You are breathing which means you can make your desired changes. We are the only ones holding back ourselves.

What are you going to commit to as an act of self-love?

I know my lovelies are out here looking to make better choices because we are done with the self-betrayal. We are done with less-than sub-par lifestyle, people and situations. It’s time to be committed to loving ourselves on a deeper level and on a stronger foundation that sees lasting change; with results of more inner strength, resilience, ease and flow, more peace and balance because Love is alignment.

I’m sending you all lots of love, power, confidence and encouragement to love yourself fearlessly.

seeyalaterbye!